I think as a 30 year old professional (let's be honest I'm not a "young professional anymore) ;), I have reached a point where I yearn for constant challenge and really wanting to make a difference in the lives of students. We all have major struggles at work, face challenges with others, and have come across situations that end up changing us for the better. However, we don't realize at the time, that those situations actually will make us a stronger professional and a better person. Think about a situation you have come across at work, and 6 months/a year later, how it has made you a better person. Here are some tips that I have to offer, for whatever they are worth - when dealing with challenges professionally. This is really for my soon to be college grads ;):
1. Find a confidante outside of the workplace. - Whether it is your significant other, a family member or a close friend, make sure that you are talking to someone outside of work about your issues. It is never a good (speaking from experience) to bring your issues or drama to work - it will only make your problems worse! So, when you feel the need to dish - pick up your phone and text a good friend or someone who has no affiliation with your job.
2. Communicate with your supervisor - It is so important to have a close connection with your boss. I have been blessed to have had great supervisors along my professional journey so far. Make sure that you are working on goals, expectations and really communicating how you can move forward with your challenges.
3. Self Motivate - Find your inner passions and motivate yourself to make changes. For me, my struggle has always been staying super organized (and if you are not organized in Student Activities - good luck to ya ;). I had to find my method of organization and a way that would empower me to stay organized. Maybe it is making your office supplies bright and fun or doing a weekly clean out of things that you don't need! You have to be motivated enough to make those changes.
4. Prove it - You have to prove to others that you have changed. Ask others what they expect of you and how you can make working with you easier. People want someone they can count on, who is going to pull their weight and who is going to follow through with work. Make sure that you are on top of email, voice-mails and the administrative tasks that might seem to be meaningless but are important in order to make your office successful.
5. Don't beat yourself up - Like I said before, we all make (some) mistakes at work. Focus on being the best version of you, having a positive attitude, and don't beat yourself up for too long.
I hope you liked my tips! Keep posted for more as I try to keep connected with students and I feel these tips can help us all!
